I spent 24 hours this weekend at an event with great intentions called "The Big Task" weekend. It was put on by a true entrepreneur and networking genius named
Keith Ferrazzi. Present were power players in health, wellness, and social media, like WebMD, iVillage, Kaiser Permante, AARP, Aetna, Scholastic, Microsoft, and others. The goal was to walk away with contacts with a common purpose of helping each other make progress in turning around health care and the trend of obesity in this country. I really respect everyone who went to the event. These are professional, quality people, with big hearts. They are looking at the massive pile of a problem, focusing on it, and brainstorming ideas to make a change.
But that's also the problem -- they were all focused on the problem, like driving on a slippery road with white knuckles on the steering wheel worrying about how everyone will avoid running into that telephone pole up ahead, rather than first slowing down to making sure each individual himself would stay on the road. The rally cries were brave and the quest was bold: "We must be warriors against declining state of health in the country," "Let's fight the bureaucracy", "Be a thorn in the side of the Presidential candidates so this issue gets attention." On and on it went, spinning our wheels, my wheels included.
As usual, the players were looking for a mass solution to the micro problem of the individual behavior that got us here. There was plenty of blame to go around. And the longer we talked, the more complex the whole situation sounded. It was all "How do we solve the problem for them" with talk of rewards programs, celebrity endorsements, and more task forces. As I drove home from the event, I realized we forgot to make a critical admission: Every human being in the room was a microcosm of the problem. We all created the problem. We are all LIVING the problem. There is no "them" in this. It is me. It is us. But we kept talking because it sounded right. Not a bad thing, just trying to push a massive mountain out of the way, when it seems all we really need to do is, each one of us wake up and walk around it, one at a time.
Later I signed onto
WOWY for my workout, and like a breath of fresh air I met my 42 workout buddies. I read the exit messages from the real heroes who have taken control of their situations and are replacing the trend of obesity with their own trend of wellness, fitness, and a daily rush of endorphins. You guys are the hidden gems, the real energy behind a movement that will quietly, yet quickly get people moving and living a healthy lifestyle.
Here's a few examples of my 42 WOWY buddies, at 6PM on a Saturday night no less!
McDade in Washington
"Thanks for being there. Have a great night"
Wendy82 in California
"That was awesome! My fiance finally did it with me, about time, he's 5
days behind, and he's dying. I love it!!!"
pmtdunn in Indiana
"I NOW KNOW WHAT YOGA IS. THIS IS GREAT..."
Emilyr in Kentucky
"Keep Moving!!!!"
hunk2b in Arizona
"Done, now time to relax, have a great evening all!!"
lateboomer in Colorado
"Hang tough, y'all!"
Honestly -- you are all really amazing. You take the time to stop and cheer on people you have only met online. YOU are the solution. I wish the whole world could see you. I guess that's the point of
Million Dollar Body anyway -- to encourage and reward you for spreading a positive message of action and peer support - first by living that message for real through your own action... MDB coaches don't just talk about change, you ARE change!
Thank you so much for helping us make a difference. This is all nothing without you! Thank YOU for being the real thing!